Lovefoolosophy
Emilee Kang
This is Emilee Kang, Singapore Idol 2006 hopeful. Isn’t she just adorable? Looking at her is like peering into another dominion altogether where time and space cease to exist. Haha! Ok, so I’m nuts. But she’s a true beauty nonetheless. Vote for her dudes and dudettes!
Miss Binkley & Moi!

This is Miss Denise Binkley, one of the lecturers at OCU. We guys had sort of a crush on her...I mean, at 40, she's quite the Farah Fawcett, wouldn't you say!
The Short Story
It was quite a hiatus. The writing of a short story had been responsible for the literary coma. It was for the Golden Point Award. It was my first attempt on writing a short story piece. No sooner had I begun a hopeful endeavour to tread the emptiness of each page with a plenitude of words, I discovered that the task was no push over.
The free-writing stage of it was relatively an open and shut process. Free-writing is the embryo of almost any kind of writing. Thinking is an infanticide to the process of free-writing. In free-writing, you just write. You do not think; not a lot, at least. You write down every single trace of idea you have, even those worthy of being labelled nonsensical. You only start putting your writing under the lexical microscope when you have got the skeleton down. Only then should you grope for that dictionary, thesaurus or whatever literary weapons you might have. Then you put your writing under the knife.
One of the most difficult parts of writing a short story is probably the dialogue. You have to manufacture something that has to look anything but manufactured. You have to keep your dialogues in line with things like the time, place and situation which make up the setting of your story so that the conversations between the characters will seem believable to the readers. Your characters will only be believable if they talk like an actual human being rather than a prude Victorian-age alien from some undiscovered planet from some undiscovered solar system. One more thing, forget about the use of onomatopoeia. All the bags of "clank", "swoosh", "vroom" should be left behind back in your primary school days.
The infamy of the War on Terror had inspired me to write a short story about the last moments in the life of a terrorist. It was set in Singapore, an idea sparked by Dr. Tony Tan's rather sombre reminder to us that terrorism is fast docking onto the shores of our island and that this threat is not merely a far fetched case of paranoia, but a very real danger.
I plunged into the writing of this short story with a framework as frail as our understanding of terrorism itself. Some might beg to differ with me on this - that their comprehension of the subject of terrorism is not as miniscule as I think because they read the newspapers and watch the news on TV everyday. But news is the product of other people's interpretation of real life situations. Somewhere along the chain of information, facts can get distorted, although impurposely. I am not saying that we should not trust the media. I am saying that while we can and should trust the media, we must also provide an allowance of common sense to know that although the media, more often than not, provide truthful and accurate news, sometimes they leave out 'other' truths, which, if combined with those truths that they do report, might reveal absolutely different forms of truth! Here is an illustration: We hear about terrorist attacks almost everyday in the news. But we hardly ever, if at all, hear about the oppression that these people face from western nations. I do not condone any act of terrorism, but I do feel that if all the cards are laid on the table, then we would not merely be blindly fed with an overload of information, but we might actually start to 'comprehend' those information and evaluate their credibility for ourselves rather than simply relying on the words of the media.
Like the overzealous novice writer that I was (and still am), I showed the drafts of my short story to some friends and asked for their constructive criticism. One which stood out was that my choice of words was not rudimentary enough for the common reader to grasp without having to strain his vocabulary muscle.
I understand where they were coming from. The short story was written in a rather semi-poetic fashion, mainly because I felt that with a subject as obscure as terrorism, the dimness that fanciful writing lent to the story was my way of declaring that my knowledge of the subject matter, regardless of the plethora of information it had been based on, was basically that – as obscure and dim as poetry itself. It is something like a dream; our dreams do not come in vivid photo quality prints, but rather, in ambiguous and abstract charcoal paintings. Hence, for my sake, I hope that my critics were wrong.
All entries had to be submitted by the 23rd of May 2005, which was four days ago. I went down to the MICA building, a rather colonial structure with psychedelic windows, which satirically seemed to offset everything that was colonial about it. I found the manuscript-collection office and as I waited in line to submit my stuff, a pint-sized girl came in, draped in nothing more than a skirt that could be mistaken for a slightly oversized handkerchief and a cardigan buttoned only at its midway point, right on the hollow between her you-know-what(s). She had this pouting look on her face, which I was not sure, what it was supposed to signify – whether it was her disgust by the sudden increase in the testosterone level in the room, or her attempt to look somewhat bohemian, a sought-after image of the arty-farty, or those who aspire to be, at least. Then another girl came in, wearing the same constipated look on her face but with more cloth on her body. Is there a code for facial expression and dressing for the creative world that I am not aware of? I have to admit I felt very left-brained momentarily after that. It was a culture shock, perhaps.
Anyway, I hope I win something. If not, then it just means that while I am good enough, my story is not.
Lovefoolosopher
The Nothingman and his Angel Novocaine
The Nothingman sings romance of his Novocaine,He sings of love, he sings of pain,He sings of hopes beginning to wane,But most of all the Nothingman sings,He sings of his Superstar Angel Novocaine...But his Novocaine hears not his forlorn lullaby,She sees just another beggar, his head held up high,Neither a smile nor even a sigh,His Superstar Angel Novocaine,Just walked on by...she just walked on by...The Nothingman kills his songs, his love in vain,His lyrics now seem all just too insane,He will sing no more for now, his spirit slain,But perhaps one day he will sing again,For his Beautiful Angel Novocaine...Lovefoolosopher
The Manifesto of a Modern Day Bourgeois
Have you ever found yourself in a situation whereby you feel as if you've been pushed into an inconsequential little corner of humanity, stripped of the right to call your voice your very own; your intellectuality muffled by a forced deafening obmutescence; your very existence reduced to a mere speck of dust by the presence of a figure of perceived higher authority who commands tacit subservience? If your answer to any of these is yes, then perhaps you might be able to relate to what I'm about to write on.
I have been raised as a bourgeois in an orthodox patriarchal-authoritarian Asian family. When you are in a family who holds firmly onto this rather antiquated form of governance, you have to know your place. It's imperative that you understand the hierarachy of power that exists - the head of the family, being the father, has absolute control over everything and any reminiscent authority or its spectre for that matter, is depreciated down the line, from the eldest child right down to the youngest. I am the youngest child in a family of ten children. Hence on the family level, "authority" and "freedom of speech" to me are just lexical ambiguities.
Before you dip your foot into the murky waters of Assumption, rest assured that I am anything but a puppet in a family of proletarians. Silence does not spell consent. Like all political systems, it's a bit of a contradiction, really. I am the undisputed commander of my own free will and as unbelievable as it might seem, throughout my life, I have never really found a reason to rebel. Without being divorced from love and concern, my family adopts a pretty much laissez-faire disposition in my personal life. As far as I am concerned, curfews have been as bona fide as Greek mythology. Hell, I am like a CIA operative - my movements in and out of the house are made clandestine by the shroud of conscious nonchalance. In fact, I used to live in a maisonette and the stairway to (no, not heaven) the main door was virtually concealed from the rest of the house. As I have never been able to adopt the gaudy civility of telling my family where I would be heading to at any point of time, more often than not, they wouldn't know. Call it barbarous disrespect if it helps you sleep at night, I don't care. It's my family, I know better. I know for a fact that though it points towards dysfunctionality, it is actually a mutually unspoken family understanding. Ok, ok...if it is of any comfort, I've always had a pager or a mobile phone they can reach me on in case of emergencies - for instance, if I've run out of a month's supply of shampoo. So...I would have friends calling for me at home, only to be put on hold by whoever it is who answers the call at a particular point of time. It would be three or four successive hollers of, "Az! Your call!", from the lower level of the house, before the family member finally gives up hope of my presence in the vicinity and goes on to relay the unfortunate news to my friend, who, by that time, would have already been well-informed, courtesy of the series of space-penetrating hollers. Nevertheless, this fabricated insouciance of my private life should not be mistaken for disinterest or the lack of love. It is a conscious effort engineered towards the establishment of a sense of reciprocal trust.
But that's all in the individual context.
I do, on the contrary, find solace in the sang-froid of silence as far as decision-makings at the family level are concerned. For I understand with utmost clarity that personal autonomy in my family does not make you God. When decisions have to be made at the family level, like a local police precinct contending for authority with federal agents on national-level issues, that is where my jurisdiction comes to an abrupt halt. Macro-level issues the likes of the family financials and cold wars between siblings at the higher end of the hierarchy are big politics to me. It's my Forbidden City, my anathema. It's like the Money section on The Straits Times - unintelligible gibberish. Sometimes I do not understand the inner workings of those issues; most of the time, I just choose not to. Maybe it's a form of self-preservation. The vociferous dominant voices at the top of the hierarchy would simply drown the whispers of those at the lower end of the authority spectrum. Sure, you can be all evangelical and set out on a crusade to fight for your basic human right to voice out your opinions. But at the end of the day, all that mean shit. I mean, no disrespect to my family, they are the best. But this is the naked truth of the matter which I believe many of you can relate to, be it from the family perspective or that of any other social relationships. Hence, rather than settling for condescending approvals, I have come to the realization that sometimes there is more amplitude in a rhetorical silence than in a silenced jabber. Less is indeed more.
As with many of you guys, I'm sure, I am not a blind follower. I am worldly-wise enough to know that people at the top don't always know what they are doing all the time. Anyone needs a reminder of the situation in Iraq? Enough said. On a side note, whether they would admit to that is another story for another blog entry. That said, I am not a fool who rushes in where angels fear to tread. If I think my family has made a good decision on an issue, I keep my mouth shut. Otherwise, I still keep my mouth shut. Notwithstanding, I have never done anything I wasn't willing to, and I don't intend to start, ever. Neither do I see the need to tell the whole world about it. I believe my family is fully aware of this muted standpoint of mine and there is a sense of implicit approval from them. You don't have to like it, just try not to make it too ostensible.
And so far, this understood agreement has served me well.
Lovefoolosopher
The Tiny Red Dot
I was having coffee with a group of friends recently, when one of them began complaining about how he had to search for a place to stay because he had decided to move out of his house, as he felt that he did not want to be a burden to his retired parents. He is a single, 23 year-old undergraduate, whose only source of income comes from the royalties he receives for his freelance website-designing. The rest of my friends and I were quite taken aback by his decision. In Singapore, if you are still single (even though you have a job), moving out and living on your own is relatively equivalent to Neil Armstrong’s venture to the moon – a small step for Man, a giant leap for Mankind! Well, at least that was how the social norm in this little island used to be. However, taking my friend’s crisis as an illustration, things are changing here, and the Singapore government is getting worried.
My friend had demonstrated the rapidly changing values of the new generation of Singaporeans, which are beginning to incline towards the liberalism of the West, particularly the United States of America. In America, the ripe age of 18 marks the genesis of adulthood and many young adults would have already moved out of their parents’ homes by this age. On the other hand, if you are a 30 year-old single in Singapore, with a stable job and a fairly comfortable income and still living with your parents, you would be considered a filial child. Such is the difference in values between Singapore and the West.
This is because Singapore’s political ideologies throughout the years, since its independence in 1965, stem very much from the teachings of Confucian, the great Chinese philosopher, like respect for authority and the importance of family unity. These teachings are in stark contrast to the ideologies of the West (America), which hold sacred the values of individualism and the freedom of speech.
However, my study is not about advocating authoritarianism as being a better political philosophy than America’s democracy or vice versa, because the suitability of any country’s political philosophy often depends on many factors, like the size of the population, its political history, the political tensions surrounding its region, the might of its military, the power of its economy or the background of its leaders. Enlightening this point, both Singapore and America obviously have had their individual political ideologies working for them throughout their histories, thus explaining their economic success. However, in the context of Singapore, although its achievements are unquestionably admirable, what is the price that the people of Singapore have to pay for these achievements? Why does the Singapore government believe so strongly that Asian values as opposed to Western liberalism, are the very principles that have made Singapore what it is today? What are some of the personal values that the people have to sacrifice for the good of the community? These are some of the questions that I hope to discuss in this paper. In fact, with regards to the question, “How far should Singapore compromise its values for economic growth?”, I believe that Singapore should, on the contrary, be asked, “How far should Singapore ‘not’ compromise its values for economic growth?” This is because I feel that certain collective national values of Singapore have devalued the more “personal” values of the individual Singaporean. This forms the basis of my discussion.
The People’s Action Party (PAP) – Is it simply an “authoritarian” government?
History has shown that the values and culture of a nation are often shaped by the one person or party that has brought about the greatest political revolution in that country, regardless whether the change was positive or one that had thrown the country into political hell. In Germany, there was Hitler; in the former Soviet Union, there was Lenin; in Indonesia, there was Suharto and in Singapore, we have Lee Kuan Yew and the dominating political party, the People’s Action Party (PAP). Hence, to understand the values of the Singaporean people, it is crucial that we first, try to fathom the values of Lee Kuan Yew and the PAP.
Under the naked eye, the PAP may be perceived as just another authoritarian government (some might not even be able to tell the difference in political ideology between Singapore and communist China), which limits the freedom of speech and political rights of its people, because it believes that only the elite are fit to rule a nation. Its dogma of “Asian” values holds dear, the principles of meritocracy, family unity and most important of all, total subservience to authority.
However, while other governments that share similar authoritarianism ideology or elements of it, like the former Soviet Union, Vietnam, Indonesia under Suharto’s rule and the Philippines under Ferdinand Marcos’ rule, have collapsed, the PAP’s authoritarian regime is still going strong and has brought about meteoric industrial and economic success throughout the years.
This political feat by a ruling body that is sometimes regarded as a form of dictatorship has brought it under the microscope of western liberals, because unlike other forms of dictatorship in history, Singapore has defied the political laws of nature – that has proven time and again that dictatorships like Communism and Fascism are, but ephemeral political systems. Lee Kuan Yew and the PAP have denounced the liberal ideologies of the West and adopted, instead, the rather passé authoritarian ideology that comprises of these elements: pragmatism, elitism, meritocracy, multiracialism, “Asian” values and political socialization. In a nutshell, these elements are as follows:
Pragmatism
The PAP has been described by Lee Kuan Yew as being rational and anti-ideology. This means that the ruling party believes in the practical results of a particular policy – whether it actually “works”. The PAP will strive for the best practical solution to a problem and will not forgo it for the sake of dogma. If the PAP senses that a policy is not working for the nation, it will quickly discard it. The PAP is more apt to believe in what has been tried and tested than in ideological “dreams” or “visions”.
Elitism
In the words of Thomas Jefferson in his letter to John Adams in 1813, “I agree with you that there is a natural aristocracy among men. The grounds of this are virtue and talents…”
The PAP holds the same conviction when it comes to leadership. It believes that only the most trustworthy, brightest and most intellectual, are fit to lead. It believes that people are born with different capabilities – the concept of equality is, but non-existent. There are rulers and there are followers. The PAP believes that a government is “for” the people but can never be “by” the people.
Meritocracy
Social and occupational advancements in Singapore are based on individual achievement, regardless of factors induced by politics, economic, race, social class, or religion. This kind of meritocratic principle is applied in civil service, government-linked companies, education and the military. Meritocracy complements the principle of elitism in Singapore because the more highly qualified a person is, the higher is his rank in society.
Multiracialism
The population of Singapore comprises of Chinese, Malays, Indians and Eurasians. Multiracialism refers to the respect for and tolerance of all the ethnic groups and cultures and that they are treated as equals under the law. The PAP does not tolerate racial conflicts and have established sanctions against seditious racial or religious remarks.
Asian Values
The majority Chinese leaders of Singapore, especially Lee Kuan Yew, were very much, and still are, attached to the teachings of Confucianism (from China), which advocates values like tradition, hard work, thrift, family unity, filial piety, pragmatism, submission to authority and working towards the good of the community. Some critics believe that this is a form of subtle rebellion against the values of liberal democracies of the West (especially America), like individualism, freedom of speech, and aspirational politics (about “dreams” and “visions”, e.g. the “American Dream”, in contrast to Singapore’s pragmatic political culture). Singapore’s “Asian” values have played a key role in shaping the cultures and values of the people. This will be discussed in further detail in the later part of this paper.
Political Socialization
The government of Singapore is aware of the fact that the values and culture of Singapore (and any nation, for that matter) can change through external influences. For instance, the problem of casual sex in Singapore is becoming more rampant now. Hence, the government tries to salvage eroding values or inculcate new ones through “political socialization”, which I feel, is the euphemism for “social engineering”. It refers to the utilization of public policies and campaigns to influence the minds of the people so that they will see in the point of view of the government.
From the national ideology listed above, five core values have been developed for the society. In January 1991, Parliament of Singapore was presented with the “White Paper on Shared Values”, termed as “The Shared Values. They are:
1. Nation before community and society before self;
2. Family as the basic unit of society;
3. Community support and respect for the individual
4. Consensus, no conflict; and
5. Racial and religious harmony.
With the exception of “multiracialism”, these elements of the PAP’s political culture form a reflection of the teachings of Confucius and also, the political culture of China. Considering the fact that the Chinese make up about 77% of the total population, it is no surprise that Singapore’s political culture is very much influenced by the Chinese culture.
Yet, the political style of Senior Minister Lee Kuan Yew, the founding father of independent Singapore (whom many believe, still holds the “real” political power in Singapore today, even though Goh Chock Tong has taken over as Prime Minister), cannot be termed simply as “authoritarian” – it is a little more complex than that. Lee Kuan Yew had ingeniously combined Leninist organizational tactics with elements of Capitalism. This has resulted in a nation with strong economic and industrial foundation (capitalism), but strictly controlled by a paternalistic, authoritarian government (Leninism, Communism, Confucianism). This is the key to Singapore’s economic success despite its dictatorial government. However, Singapore’s political system is not free from flaws. I will get to that in a later part of this paper.
So, what had influenced Lee Kuan Yew and the PAP to adopt such a political culture? It is imperative that we first look at the factors that had influenced Lee Kuan Yew and the PAP.
Lee Kuan Yew – The Architect
Like most significant figures in politics, Cambridge-educated Lee Kuan Yew grew up during the tumultuous times of World War II, and more significantly for Singapore, the Japanese Occupation. After the Japanese had surrendered, Lee Kuan Yew saw a need for a revolution for independence from the British colonial government.
Lee Kuan Yew was an English-trained barrister when he returned to Singapore in the late 1940s and had impressed even the British, by being very well educated and capable. They could see him as a leader of post-independent Singapore, who could maintain their colonial legacy. However, Lee Kuan Yew who had been harboring anti-colonial sentiments, had other ideas. It is important to note that by that time, the Chinese had already surpassed the Malays by a significant margin as the majority ethnic group in Singapore. However, these Chinese-educated Chinese, whose parents and grandparents were immigrants from China were still very much attached to the values and cultures of China and possessed anti-colonial feelings. However, Lee Kuan Yew and his English-educated Chinese revolutionary members had to find a way to reach out to the Chinese-educated majority, who did not trust them, being the English-educated Chinese that they were. Lee Kuan Yew had to seek assistance from the Chinese pro-Communist activists of Malaya (now known as Malaysia), which many thought was a very dangerous move since the Chinese communists had been involved in a guerilla war against the British just a few years earlier. This coalition gave birth to the People’s Action Party. With Lee Kuan Yew and his English-educated associates well-skilled in the legal and parliamentary department and familiar with the ways of the colonial powers, while the pro-Communist activists manned the street organization, mass campaigns and covert work, the coalition managed to gain the support of the Chinese-educated majority and achieved self-government.
The PAP later split into two, with the left-wing party forming the Barisan Socialist (Socialist Front). However, Lee Kuan Yew’s stint of partnership with the pro-Communist faction had made him aware of the effectiveness of the organization tactics of the Communists, whereby an elite few can efficiently control and direct a larger and even uncompromising majority. However, Lee Kuan Yew was also aware of the fact that an absolute totalitarian government found in China and Russia would not work if he wanted to build a capitalist and technocratic nation. Hence, his admiration for a Leninist organization control without sacrificing the importance of the forces of supply and demand and the individuals’ desire to compete economically, led him to form a unique political ideology that combines both Leninist Communism with Capitalism. This is the root of Singapore’s political values and culture.
I will next examine how these values of the government have affected the various aspects of the lives of the citizens of Singapore.
Issues Affected by Singapore’s Political Values & Culture
Employment in the Civil Service
Employment in Singapore, especially in the civil service, is very much based on the principles of elitism and meritocracy. The PAP competes with the private sector for the recruitment of citizens with the highest capabilities and qualifications by initiating rapid promotions, high salaries (which are increased annually) and bonuses, into government ministerial and civil service positions. The PAP believes that top-notch talents are scarce, considering Singapore’s small population. Hence, the only way to attract these talents to the government and civil service positions, and also to ensure their continuity and loyalty, is to pay wages that are competitive to those offered by the private sector. Illustrating this point, the government ministers in Singapore are the highest paid in the world. Even the salaries of junior ministers here exceed that of the President of the United States. Another rationale for high wages in the government sector, according to the PAP, is to thwart any temptations for corruption. This may be justified by the solemnly peaceful environment in Singapore politics.
Within the element of “Asian” values, submission to authority is another chisel that shapes the ministerial and civil service environment in Singapore. The hierarchy of power in all organizations in the civil service ensures that everyone works systematically. Everyone is at the mercy of the orders and instructions posed to them. For instance, if you are a police sergeant, you will await orders from your police inspector on which locations to patrol, or which suspect to apprehend, or even, when to have your lunch. The police inspector, on the other hand, receives his orders from the next superior in line, the assistant superintendent. Far from what we see in Hollywood movies, the disregard for a direct order may not simply result in a suspension, but it could mean the end of your career. Submission to authority is everything in the civil service.
Multiracialism in Singapore
Singapore is an ethnic melting pot. Take a two-minute walk along any street on the island and you can see people from the three major ethnic groups. 77 percent of the population is Chinese, 14 percent Malays, 1.7 percent Indians and 1.3 percent Eurasians and other races (e.g. Bugis, Javanese, etc). Permanent residents and foreigners make up 24 percent of the total population. Although the Malays were the indigenous people of Singapore, by the late 19th Century, the Chinese had taken over as the ethnic majority. As I had mentioned earlier, Singapore culture as it is today had been very much shaped by the majority Chinese. This explains the presence of the political values of China in Singapore politics.
The PAP has gone to great lengths to ensure racial harmony. Discriminating racial remarks and actions are prohibited through strong sanctions. Lately, especially since the emergence of terrorist threats after the September 11 attacks on New York City, the PAP has begun to play down ethnic diversity to remind the people that Singaporeans are indeed “one people”, and they should disregard their ethnic differences.
One controversial policy that resulted from this issue was the ban on the “tudung” or head scarves for female Muslim students in secular schools. This policy had stirred up strong emotions from not only the Muslim community in Singapore, but also those from neighboring Malaysia and Brunei. Four Muslim students, who insisted on wearing their head scarves when the policy was first implemented, were suspended from school. The rationale given by the government was that religious symbols in schools, like the Muslim head scarves, hinder racial and religious integration in the classroom. After the September 11 attack, religion has been a very sensitive issue, which involves the Muslims specifically. Hence, the PAP justifies this policy on the grounds of promoting racial unity.
Although the PAP has repeatedly assured the people that all public policies have been established with racial harmony in mind, the minorities, especially the Malays, have expressed resentment against some of the policies, accusing the PAP of tilting towards the Chinese majority.
The Media in Singapore
The media in Singapore is closely linked to the government through government-linked companies (GLCs) and private holding companies that have close ties with the PAP. These companies include the Singapore Press Holdings (SPH), for print media, MediaCorp, for broadcast, and The Radio Corporation of Singapore, for radio. The print media is controlled by a various laws, which includes the Sedition Act (1964), the Internal Security Act (1964), the Essential (Control of Publications and Safeguarding of Information) Regulation (1966), the Undesirable Publications Act (1967) and the Newspaper and Printing Presses Act (1974). Broadcasting media is controlled by the Singapore Broadcasting Authority (SBA). Home satellite dishes are banned in Singapore because the government believes that the nation might be influenced by external cultures that oppose Singapore’s “Asian” values. My intention is not to bore you with the details, but to give you an idea of just how tightly controlled the media in Singapore is.
The government of Singapore perceives the media as being a tool to inform and educate the public regarding government policies, campaigns and ideas. Of course, besides informing and educating, the government hopes to gain the people’s support. Other than these functions, the media is generally seen as an entertainment source.
Lovefoolosopher
Introspection of a Societal Newbie
About a month ago, I was a fresh graduate - a bachelor's degree in Mass Comms in my hand and youthful hopes in my heart.
As I am typing this entry, it is 2:05 am, March 30th, 2005. I am still a fresh graduate. My bachelor's degree is still crisp in my hand, but my youthful anticipations have begun to wane under the soul-crushing clutches of utter boredom.
Before you assume that this is just another one of those sorry-ass lamentations of a societal newbie, who is just coming to terms with reality, I assure you that I do not intend to make it as such. For I am fully aware that this is just an ephemeral phase that almost every child of the metropolitan goes through. And I am fine with that. It's super. I feel, notwithstanding, that it is important that I cherish this stint of insecurity and inadequacy, so that when I have made my mark in the future, I can look back and sneer at my heart-rending bout of professional drought.
It's April 8th now. 2.21 am. I am re-inspired to continue with my previously shortlived entry by my unbroken jobless state of mind. Maybe not exactly jobless. I got a temp job with The Necessary Stage, the theatre company. I am a transcriber. If you're groping for that dictionary right now then it's good. The obscurity of the word romantacizes the importance of my newly held title. The fundamentals of my job are to pen down, verbatim, the interviews with the victims of the tsunami disaster. Interviews in Malay and Bahasa Indonesia are to be translated to English.
I almost kissed myself silly when they decided to pay me $100 per day instead of the initially agreed $12 per hour. I mean, it was easy-friggin'-money, or so I thought. I called up several friends to jump on the bandwagon. Easy money were the magic words. And as brief as the glory was, I was hailed the Messiah of Bummers Inc, at least till 13 hours later, when we learnt that nothing comes easy, especially not money. It could take us about five hours to transcribe a 15-minute long interview, exlcuding the translations. Seven hours later, one of my friends ran for his life. He decided that $100 worth of reasons were not enough to justify the back-breaking ordeal. If it had been war, he might have been shot down for desertion. At least I think he ought to be.
But I got over the self-pity and although it was unimaginably tedious work, like arranged marriages, I soon learnt to love it. Ok, maybe love is pushing it - I got used to it, perhaps even liking it. And that is the story of the Transcriber.
I went down to a couple of job agencies several days ago, more to console my perpetual ennui than anything else. Nowadays, anything that kills time is godsend. Staying home can be depressing.
Right now I'm down with a cold. I've just realized that colds add a tinge of glow to your skin, for mine at least. I just feel that I look better when I'm having a cold. So colds are good.
If you haven't noticed, this is the first entry where I am the apex of the issue. I try not to make this blog into a narcissistic personal diary, like most mainstream blogs. But I'm in the mood for introspection, so bite me.
Lovefoolosopher
Opportunitism - My Very Own Political Philosophy
Here is my humble attempt at engineering a philosophy in governing a country. Well, maybe not just any country, but more specifically, Singapore. I believe that there is no one “perfect” political philosophy that can be applied to all the nations in the world, because we are different in so many aspects, be it physical, mental or spiritual. I am not trying to change the world with my philosophy because I am far from qualified to do so. I do not know much about the other nations in the world, but I know a little bit more about Singapore.
My idea is quite simple and straightforward, actually. Firstly, I did not misspell the word “Opportunitism”. It is deliberately not meant to be “opportunism” because then it may suggest using unfair means to achieve one’s goals. I meant it as it is – “Opportunitism”. Opportunitism is a concept that advocates the individual’s entitlement to a fair provision of opportunity that will bring about self-actualization. I am not talking about equal opportunity, but rather, a “fair” provision of opportunity given to an individual to realize his true potentials. To illustrate this point, consider the case of a person who has just been released from prison. He only possesses a secondary level qualification. Now, if I am applying “equal” opportunity, he should be given the same opportunity as a degree holder to apply for a managerial position in a company, which is unrealistic. However if the management were to apply the concept of “Opportunitism”, the man will not simply be turned down, but he will be given a “fair” opportunity to apply for a position in the company, but in the production department of the organization, despite his criminal record. This concept can be applied to the working environment in general because in many countries, many repentant ex-criminals face unemployment because they are not given the fair opportunity to work.
In fact, the concept of Opportunitism can be applied in almost any aspect of human life – be it political, social or economic. Let us bring the concept of Opportunitism to the context of Singapore. As I have mentioned earlier, the minorities like the Malays and Indians lag behind the Chinese in terms of social status largely because they are not given the fair amount of opportunity in military, working environment and in education. I refute the notion that it is the intrinsic nature of a particular race that causes them to not be as capable or as intelligent as another race. How can that be? They have all been brought up in the same country, under the same government, sharing the same values and culture. I believe it is due to the subtle discrimination and the lack of opportunity in society that the minorities have to face that has caused them to lag behind. Thus, applying the concept of Opportunitism, the government should provide a fair opportunity for the brightest Indian and Malay students by establishing SAP schools for them too. Include the Malays in the elite forces of the military because they too should be given the fair opportunity to serve their country. Provide the fair opportunity to the media to provide constructive criticism on the government. These are some of the steps the government can take to create a more wholesome society where everyone is given the fair opportunity to participate in the country’s decision making.
Opportunitism, as with John Stuart Mill’s “Utilitarianism” concept, can be applied to just about any aspect of our lives. It depends on how constructively we apply it to everyday situations. The key point to note is that Opportunitism is not about providing “equal” opportunity, but rather, a “fair” opportunity to an individual. I believe that only if a person is given the opportunity to prove his worth, can he really discover his utmost potential and in turn, give his best to society.
Lovefoolosopher
Islam Misunderstood: The Stigma of Terrorism on Islam
The terrorist attacks of September 11 have placed the teachings, goals and ideology of Islam in the spotlight. Osama Bin Laden and his Al-Qaeda network had claimed responsibility for the heinous act of terrorism, casting an instant stigma on Islam. The horrific images of the planes crashing into the Twin Towers of the World Trade Centre were all over American news broadcast and newspapers. I remember watching the live transmission on the television, witnessing the sheer distress and utter devastation of the firefighters, police officers, survivors and the bystanders. As I watched the last victims of the collapsing towers jumped off the buildings in desperation, like many people around the world who were watching at that point of time, my heart sank to the lowest depth.
The terror attacks on the World Trade Center in New York and the Pentagon in Washington D.C. had catapulted Islam into the western dictionary’s definition of “violence” and “terror”. American-Muslims who resemble Osama Bin Laden in one way or another (the beard and head-dress in particular) suddenly found themselves unable to walk on the streets without drawing undesirable attention. Even American-Sikhs wearing head-dresses that resemble that of Osama’s became fearful of being attacked by Americans angered by the appalling attacks of September 11. Islam suddenly became synonymous with terrorism.
The reason why I decided to write on this issue is because I feel that a clear distinction has to be made between Islam and Terrorism. Although the American government and media may have tainted the image of the religion when they label terrorism as being largely Islamic in nature, we cannot ignore the fact that the real root of the problem is how Islamic fundamentalists like Osama Bin Laden has manipulated the various interpretations of verses from the Quran to serve their own political agendas. In this piece of writing, I hope to provide a brief background of Islam and its position in the contemporary political world, explain how the religion has been misunderstood throughout the globe, especially in the West, and how Islamic extremists have abused the interpretations of Islamic teachings for their own political gains. I would also provide a brief background of the two most notorious Islamic-extremist organizations, the Al-Qaeda and the Jemaah Islamiah and their developments.
Before anything else, it is important for us to look at the brief history of Islam. The most prominent character in Islam is the Prophet Muhammad. He was born in the city of Mecca in Arabia in A.D. 570. He married a wealthy widow when he was 25 years old. Prophet Muhammad spent most of his time in solitary meditation and he began being engulfed by disturbing visions. The Angel Gabriel dictated the contents of the Quran to him in the early 7th Century A.D. For 22 years, Prophet Muhammad reported many revelations and began sermonizing on the streets and marketplace of Mecca. He faced great opposition because he stood against the immoral behaviors of the Arabs in Mecca and in A.D. 620, there were plots to assassinate him and his followers. Prophet Muhammad had to seek refuge to the north, in the city of Medina. The flight which occurred on July 16, 622 A.D., was called “hegira”, and it marks the beginning of Islam. Prophet Muhammad later became the religious and political leader of Medina.
Prophet Muhammad’s enemies from Mecca soon launched a war against the new faith. Islam triumphed when the war ended in 630 A.D. This war was known as “Jihad”, which meant “armed struggle against the enemies of the Islam who were launching war against it” (it is important for us to note here that Jihad is an act of self defense, as opposed to the horrific attacks of September 11). After Prophet Muhammad’s death in 632 A.D. his followers carried the faith across Asia, Africa and Europe and Islam is still growing until today.
So rapid is the growth of Islam in the world that James A. Bill (professor of government and director of the Reves Center for International Studies at the College of William and Mary in Virginia) believes that the number of Muslims (followers of Islam) will be greater than that of Christians in the world by the turn of the century. Currently, Islam is practiced by 1.1 billion people. The rapid growth of Islam is not only restricted to the Middle East. For instance, there are more Muslims in Indonesia than the in middle-eastern countries like Iran, Iraq, Egypt, Syria and Saudi Arabia put together. In Malaysia alone there are more Muslims than in Kuwait, Lebanon and Jordan combined. There are 20 million Muslims in China. There are more Muslims in America today than all the Presbyterians and Episcopalians combined. In fact, there are over 1,200 mosques in the United States and 1000 mosques in England and the Muslim communities in these two regions have established their own national parliament, evidence of the penetration of Islam into the western political arena. The growth of Islam can be contributed to the increasing desire of people caught in the midst of political corruption, broken homes, violence, and discrimination, who seek refuge in the ideology of the religion.
However, although moderate Muslims pursue improved qualities of life, status in society and recognition in politics through peaceful means, some extremist groups have smeared the good name of Islam by resorting to violence to attain political ends. The Al-Qaeda network, led by Osama Bin Laden, holds the limelight in this issue, especially after the attacks on the World Trade Center in New York and the Pentagon in Washington D.C. on September 11.
In response to the terrorist attacks of September 11, many western opinion leaders harshly labeled Muslims in general with words like “aggressive”, “militant”, and uncivilized. The word “terrorists” becomes synonymous with all Muslim activists. All Muslim nations that oppose some of the foreign policies of the Western states are termed as “outlaw states”, and we know that some of the foreign policies of the United States in particular, have been unfair to the Muslim world. I believe that one of the reasons why Islam is being misunderstood throughout the world with regards to the “war on terrorism” is that many of us, whether we are watching the news on television or reading the newspaper, are more exposed to the terrorists acts of Islamic extremists of the Al-Qaeda network and the Jemaah Islamiah, but we know very little about the great plight of Muslims around the world, due to some of the policies practiced not only by the western governments, but Asian and Islamic governments as well. In fact, Muslims see themselves as the afflicted and not the afflictors. I would like to cast some light on this issue.
One of the examples I would like to highlight to reflect the oppression that Muslims in some parts of the world are facing is the double standard practiced by the United States government towards the Israel-Palestinian conflict. It is undeniable that Osama Bin Laden and members of the Al-Qaeda network, who have claimed responsibility for the attacks on United States embassies in Nairobi and Dar es Salaam as well as on United States’ military bases and a warship in Saudi Arabia and the Persian Gulf region, does indeed deserve the label “terrorists”. The attacks of September 11 cleared all doubts about that. However, the White House abused the concept of “terrorism” when it also categorized the Muslims fighting in self defense against the Israeli military occupation of the Palestinian territories in the West Bank, Gaza Strip and in southern Lebanon as “terrorists”. The U.S. administration should stop for a while and re-analyze its definition of the word “terrorists”. Not only has the Israeli government occupied Arab territories in Palestine, the Golan Heights and the Sheb’a farms in southern Lebanon, it has also defied several United Nations resolutions (the very same resolutions supported by the U.S.) by establishing settlements in those territories. The Israeli government has also broken its promise of negotiations to end the occupation by renouncing the Oslo treaty and has closed Palestinian towns, blocking the economy of the region, and also assassinated Palestinian leaders. This is indeed the epitome of terrorism. One wonders why the United States has not labeled the Israelis as “terrorists”. This selective use of the word “terrorists” is one of the major reasons for the misunderstanding of Islam throughout the world.
Other forms of oppression faced by Muslims around the world include the nearly 200,000 Muslims killed by Serbian Christians in Bosnia. 22,000 Muslim women, aged between nine to 82 years old, have been raped by Serbian Christian soldiers.
Indian forces occupying Kashmir had violently killed thousands of Muslims. In December 1992 and January 1993, Hindu mobs in Bombay, killed over 800 Muslims, ruined 5000 Muslim homes and forcing 200,000 Muslims to flee the city. Muslim mosques were bombed and young Muslim men were burned alive. Communists in Tajikistan and other regions in Central Asia, assisted by Russian troops, had killed over 20,000 Muslim and forced another 350,000 to flee.
Muslims in Middle Eastern regions are not spared the cruelties of tyranny from their secular Muslim leaders. In Iraq, the Shi’ites in the south has been facing Saddam Hussein’s war of genocide. In Egypt, the Muslim opposition towards Hosni Mubarak’s regime has been met with torture and execution of its members. Hosni Mubarak’s troops opened fire against 500 unarmed Muslims at a prayer in the Rahman Mosque in Aswan in 1993. Nine people were killed and 50 injured. A year later at a mosque in Hebron, a Jewish settler killed 30 Muslims who were praying, before survivors beat him to death.
Despite the sufferings the moderate Muslims had to go through, Western governments has labeled them as terrorists and had supported the use of force by their Middle Eastern allies against these moderate Muslims, allowing the extremists and real “terrorists” on the fringes running loose. In light of these examples, it is absolutely erroneous to associate Islam with terrorism and violence, putting 1.1 billion Muslims to blame just because certain fringe groups of Islamists extremists have lately misinterpreted the teachings of Islam in the name of their so called “holy war”, when Muslims all over the world has seen more violence and sufferings cast upon themselves throughout history than any other religion in the world. In fact, Islam is in no way different from other cultures and religions when it comes to the presence of fringe terrorists organizations within their societies. Terrorists groups can be found in Spain, Northern Ireland and Latin America. For instance, one of the Christian militant priests in Latin America, Colombia’s Camillo Torres, justified armed struggle in the name of freedom. Thus, terrorism is not exclusively Islamic and should never be thought to be.
However, to put the blame for the misunderstanding of Islam solely on the shoulders of the West would be absolutely unfair because Muslims themselves do not fully understand the true concepts of Islam, namely, the concept of “Jihad”. Due to this form of ignorance, many have fallen prey to the manipulative persuasion of Islamic extremist groups such as the Al-Qaeda and Jemaah Islamiah, that have abused the meaning of “Jihad” to justify their acts of terrorism and also to gain support from Muslims who are ignorant of the real concept of “Jihad”, but nonetheless, full of spirit, and are thirsty for “martyrdom”.
It is important for us to note that although “Jihad” was used to describe the armed struggle of self defense of Prophet Muhammad against the opposition trying to topple Islam; it should not be translated as “holy war”, like what Muslim extremists claimed. The real meaning of “Jihad” in contemporary context would be “an inner struggle to suppress one’s evil desires and elevate one’s soul.” The Arabic term for “holy war” is not “Jihad”, but rather, “al-harb muhadassa”. In fact, there is no mention of “holy war” in the Quran – there is no combination of words in the holy book that means “holy war”. Thus, for the Islamic extremists to use the Quran as their guiding tool to justify their acts of a “holy war” would be absolutely misleading.
The problem with Islamic extremists like the members of Al-Qaeda is that they merely paid selective attention to verses in the Quran that serve their vindictive intentions (even then, they always fail to understand the true meanings of those verses), and armed with these verses and their own interpretations of them, start to recruit other martyrdom-enthusiasts, who, are often ignorant of the true teachings of Islam and therefore are easily manipulated. For instance, I quote to you one of the verses that Islamic extremists have taken down from the Quran to somehow justify their evil actions:
Those who believe, and who have forsaken the domain of evil and have striven (jihad) hard in God’s cause with their possessions and their lives have the highest rank in the sight of God; and it is they, they who shall triumph in the end! Their Sustainer gives them glad tidings of the grace that flows from Him, and of His goodly acceptance, and of the gardens which await them, full of lasting bliss, therein to abide beyond the count of time. Verily, with God is a mighty reward! – Quran 9:20-22
Verses as such, where fighting and struggle are mentioned, refer to war of self defense, when Islam’s peace and security is jeopardized by its opposition, like the war that Prophet Muhammad and his followers had to go through to defend their religion from opposition army. However, these verses do not give Muslims the right to use violence against those who hold different beliefs in terms of politics and religion from the Muslims.
In fact, the real problem lie not so much in which passages of the Muslim Holy Book (Quran) they read, but which passages they choose to ignore.
A Muslim lecturer, Ihsan Bagby, who teaches international relations at Shaw University in Raleigh, N.C., is perplexed as to why suicide bombers choose to ignore verses from the Quran that appreciate mercy, self control, peace and forgiveness. One such verse in the Quran would be this:
“Take not life, which Allah hath made sacred, except by way of justice and law: Thus doth he command you, that ye may learn wisdom. – Quran 6:151
Bagby believes that the Muslim extremists have the inclination that just because certain American policies have been unfair to Muslims, especially those in the Middle East, it gives them the right to attack any American interest and innocent lives are just “collateral damage” to them. On the contrary, Islam prohibits the notion of forced conversion (a Muslim cannot use violent means to force a person of another religion to embrace Islam) and every life is held sacred – opposed to the actions of Islamic extremists who claimed to be representatives of Islam. They definitely are not.
Some writings called “hadith”, are used to interpret the Quran. These writings include sayings of Prophet Muhammad and his biography. Prophet Muhammad declared hadith that war or battle is a “lesser jihad” while spiritual refinement is the “greater jihad”. However, Islamic extremists, driven by their quest for violence to attain their own political ends, claim that hadith’s restriction of acts of violence are not the true sayings of Prophet Muhammad. One problem that arises is that in Islam, there is an absence of an official body that interprets the Quran with reference to hadith. The result is the blind following the blind – Muslims who do not fully understand the teachings of the Quran or who do not take the effort to apply their intellect to try to understand the Quran, may turn to leaders who interpret the holy book to serve their own political agenda – leaders like Osama Bin Laden.
To have a better understanding of how the name of Islam has been smeared by violence of terrorism by fringe extremist groups, we have to look at the Al-Qaeda network, led by Osama Bin Laden. It dates back to the time when the Soviet Union occupied Afghanistan. Thousands of Mujahideen warriors came from Middle East to help their fellow Muslims. Osama Bin Laden provided the financial support to the organization that drafted Muslims all over the world to be Mujahideen fighters to defeat the Soviet forces. Osama returned to Saudi Arabia after the defeat of the Soviet Union. He formed the basis of the Al-Qaeda with the Afghan war veterans, who fought in other war torn areas like Bosnia. He opposed the idea of having U.S. troops stationed in Saudi Arabia during the Gulf War. Osama was debarred from Saudi Arabia for his involvement in anti-government movements. He seeks refuge in Khartoum in Sudan where he set up headquarters for Al-Qaeda. The attacks on U.S. soldiers in Somalia mark the first acts of violence against U.S. interests. Under pressure from the U.S. and Saudi Arabia, Sudan expelled Osama in 1994, and he fled to Afghanistan, finding refuge with the ruling Taliban regime.
Osama Bin Laden’s ultimate goal is to create an Islamic state. He had been an understudy of many Islamic radical scholars and he is determined to abide by the teachings of the first Caliphs (Islamic political and religious leaders in the past). To achieve an independent Islamic state, he aims to rid Muslim nations (especially Saudi Arabia) of Americans and their interests; wipe out the Israelis and bring down governments in the Middle East that are pro-Western.
To understand Al-Qaeda’s violent nature, we have to acknowledge the theories of two contemporary Sunni Islamic philosophers - Mohammad ibn Abd al-Wahhab and Sayyid Qutb. Much of Al-Qaeda’s ideology is influenced by the works of these two radical Islamic thinkers. Their teachings are opposing to the practices of moderate Muslims.
In the 18th Century, Al-Wahab, a reformer, believed that all religions or civilization established one generation or so after the death of the Prophet Muhammad are null and void. This includes more than 1000 years of religious developments.
Sayyid Qutb, who was an Egyptian Islamic-extremist philosopher in the mid-20th Century, opposed the West, claiming that they are the enemy of Islam. He condemned the Muslim governments for not following the teachings of the first Caliphs meticulously and that he declared that the “holy war” should not be undertaken by Muslims as an act of self defense, but rather to create a world of a single religion, that is, Islam.
With the works of these two Islamic radicals as its driving principle, it is not hard to explain why the Al-Qaeda resorts to violent means to achieve their political goals. In their pursuit of a “pure” Islamic world, the Al-Qaeda network abides faithfully by the radical teachings of the two extremist thinkers, while ignoring the fact that the old rule of the Caliphs do not apply to the contemporary context of Islam.
Some of the acts of terrorism by the Al-Qaeda network in recent years include the bombing of U.S. barracks in Saudi Arabia (1995-1996) where 22 soldiers were killed; bombing of U.S. embassies in East Africa in 1998 where 224 people were killed, of whom 12 were Americans; bombing of the USS Cole in a port in Yemen in 2000, where 17 U.S. sailors were killed; attacks on the World Trade Center and the Pentagon on September 11 2001 and the bombing of an ancient synagogue in Tunisia 0n April 11 2002, leaving 17 people killed, including 11 German tourists.
The dissection of the world into the realm of war (dar al-harb) and the realm of Islam (dar al-islam) may be applicable during Prophet Muhammad’s struggle against armies trying to topple Islam, but not in the modern world. This is because Islam recognizes the importance of diplomatic relations between nations in the world today and by establishing close diplomatic ties with Muslim nations, the other nations will be considered part of the realm of commitment (dar al-ahd). Thus, waging war and unnecessary violence against other religions, customs or countries without proper justification is strictly prohibited by Islam.
As the world focuses its attention on the Al-Qaeda network, another terrorist network closer to home has been creating havoc in Southeast Asia. Jemaah Islamiah, a terrorist network led by an Islamic fundamentalist leader, Abu Bakar Bashir and another holy-war-enthusiast, Riduan Ismuddin, better known as Hambali. Hambali had spent time in the terrorist training camps in Afghanistan and Pakistan (birth place of Al-Qaeda), where he studied the ways of the Mujahideen warriors. Hambali was obsessed with the establishment of an Islamic “super-state”, which would include countries in Southeast Asia, namely, Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore, Brunei, the Philippines, Cambodia and Thailand. According to the CIA, should Hambali succeed in his quest for an Islamic “super-state”, it will hold a population of 420 million people (compared to the 280 million people in the U.S. population) and it will have a military force of over 75 million soldiers, much greater than that of the U.S. It would also have great control over the commercial sea and air routes towards Africa, India and Australia. The reason for this is because the super-state would have control over the shipping routes in the South China Sea that connects Asia to the Indian Ocean.
The first major attacks by Jemaah Islamiah were the bombings of churches, in Indonesia in 2000. It took center stage for the Bali bombings on 12 October 2002, which killed nearly 200 and wounded 300 others. In December 2001, Singapore authorities foiled a Jemaah Islamiah plot to attack the US and Israeli Embassies and British and Australian diplomatic buildings in Singapore. Singapore officials have estimated that the Jemaah Islamiah is 5000 members strong. Investigations have shown that the Jemaah Islamiah has been financed and logistic support from Middle Eastern and South Asian contacts, non-governmental organizations (NGOs), and other groups, including the Al-Qaeda network. Jemaah Islamiah’s latest target was the luxury JB Marriott Hotel in Jakarta on August 5 2003, killing at least 14 people and injuring almost 150. The attack was a threat by the network of what could become should Bali bomber Amrozi, who was to face to trial just a few days after the Jakarta attack, receive the death sentence.
To clear the misunderstanding that Islam is a religion of violence, the global “war on terrorism” first have to acknowledge the fact that terrorism is not exclusively Islamic in nature. There are other breeds of terrorism in other cultures and religions as well. The western world, especially the United States, have to also understand why Islamic extremists resort to terrorism. Although Islam does in no way condone the acts of terrorism, acknowledging this fact will not solve the real problem – WHY DOES TERRORISM BY ISLAMIC EXTREMISTS EXIST?
Organizations like the Al-Qaeda and the Jemaah Islamiah are the products of years of frustration by the Muslim regions against the unfair nature of the foreign policies of Western governments, especially the U.S., towards their communities. The establishments of fringe Islamic-extremist groups have been fueled by the failure of some of the Middle Eastern governments to stand up against the monopolization of Western military and economic influences over their oil and land. Of course, this does not justify the acts of terrorism, but the issue remains that if the Western governments do not ensure that their foreign policies are not exploitive of Muslim nations, fringe extremist groups will have all the more reasons to wage their so called “holy war” against the West. Although most Middle Eastern nations have been determined participants in the global coalition against terrorism, recent developments on terrorism has proven even that is not enough.
Lovefoolosopher
Physical Attractiveness: A Stereotype?
Textbook Definition: The belief that physically attractive individuals possess socially desirable personality traits and lead happier, more fulfilling lives than less attractive persons.
In other words, when establishing our impressions of people, especially people we do not really know, we tend to focus more on their physical attributes like ethnicity, age, and in this case, physical attractiveness rather than their intrinsic traits like kindness and honesty. We judge people based on what we readily see about them. We have the tendency to hold the misperception that beautiful people live their lives without being stigmatized by any flaw.
The evolutionary aspect suggests that physical attractiveness is influenced by a partner’s perceived fertility, that is, physical attributes like weight and facial appearance that reflect high fertility would render an individual as being attractive. However, in a more modern context, physical attractiveness stereotype is largely influenced by our sociocultural beliefs.
The media is a primary key in influencing physical attractiveness stereotype. Our general idea of a villain is most probably a person with a mean grin on his face, a huge potbelly of a tummy, a gold-studded tooth, and yes, an ugly scar on one of his cheeks. A huge contrast to this repelling image is our hero, characterized by a flawless face, nice jaw-line and cheekbones, great, dark hair, and a terrific body. Now, we all know that many successful “bad guys” possess good looks, which is a tool used to manipulate people. However, nobody wants to see an ugly hero, thus, in their pursuit of high viewership, we are brought up with the misconception that physically attractive people have more desired qualities than less attractive ones. Due to this, we form attitudes of people according to their physical attractiveness, and trying to stay consistent with that attitude, we develop a physical attractiveness stereotype.
The power of a culture in society also largely determines the degree of physical attractiveness stereotype. Since World War I and World War II right until this very day, the western culture has been perceived as being the powerhouse of the world. That explains the general definition of beauty to be that of light-skinned people of countries like the United States and those in Europe.
The plastic surgery industry has also benefited from people’s obsession with looking good. To label these people as being ridiculously vain and shallow would be a fundamental attribution error. This is because external factors play a vital role when looking for an explanation for people’s obsession with physical beauty.
Many industries today have marked physical attractiveness as one of their main criteria, for example, the media industry, the airline industry, the modeling industry and even the sales industry. This is because of the fact that beauty sells.
Physical attractiveness stereotype is a hard habit to break, considering the social power it holds in the world today. One way to control it is to perhaps look beyond the physical facade of a person and unveil the beauty within.
Lovefoolosopher
Those Who Can Teach, Teach...Those Who Can't, Please Pay Up!
I stumbled upon a rather bizarre article in Berita Harian today. Siti Suhana, an ex-NIE undergraduate, was dismissed by the institution after failing her practical evaluation for the second time. And now she owes MOE $76, 700, because technically, she has breached the bond with the ministry to teach at primary school level after her supposed graduation from NIE.How is this possible? Alright, so she is not a very good teacher...but how could MOE have allowed this to happen? It is not as if she had breached the contract on purpose...she was failed. I mean, dismiss her...ban her from ever becoming a teacher again, for God's sake...but asking her to pay that amount of money is totally ludicrous! A new reality show hits town, honestly - You Better Pray You Don't Have To Pay; or Gambling For Your Career; or Teach or Breach.
What is next, then? Imprisonment for NS personnel discharged for mental disability?
Lovefoolosopher
Quasi-affability and its advocates disgust me
Lately I have been questioning the artlessness of people's sugarcoated sociability. Some people are nice...while some are just, well...
too nice. They are too nice to the point of utter repugnance. And as if that is not enough to make you retch your guts out, these caramel-varnished tongues always turn out to be cheap counterfeits of the reliable souls we call friends. So how do you sieve the bona fide angels from the two-faced demons who collectively make up our unpredictable social circles? This is anything but an easy task, but here's my two cents' worth.
I have always believed that honest friends are often not afraid to be
monsters at first sight, relatively speaking, of course. Some are just too darn beautiful to be anything remotely close to monsters, even if they try. When people do not hide behind the veil of pseudo-perfection and readily admit to you that they do watch pornography, or that they do fantasize about Richard Simmons, you know that they are most likely for real, because these are people who want you to know them for what they are and who are not afraid of being judged by a lesser you. And as you gradually become comfortable with their shortcomings, you will realize that those shortcomings are the very essence of their idiosyncratic appeal...for our imperfections lend us the right to call ourselves human beings, unblemished by the plastic and metallic beauty of the un-alive.
When we are able to accept people for the devils that they are first, and are unbiased by the intrinsic goodness in them, we tend to subconsciously downplay our unreasonable expectations of them. The cards are laid out on the table...there is nothing to hide. We can say, "Hey, he's a sonafabitch, but I love him nonetheless..." And when the opportunity arises for them to show us their occasional virtues, we do not have to be apprehensive about its legitimacy because we know that we have
seen everything, so there is no reason for them to put on a freakshow.
Personally, I have, over the years, developed a deep-rooted inclination to distrust acquaintances who are simply too glossy when it comes to the sociability arena. Even some of the friends we have, they are like Superman - incapable of being bad or getting mad, and all they do is say nice things to you and smile at your silliest antics, even those worthy of a bitch-slap. Sure, our insatiable desire to feed our ego will make us appoint them our latest deputies...but when we are over-fed with their sweet adorations and become intoxicated by an excessive sugar level in the blood, we start to ask ourselves if these guys are for real. And often, we realize that they are not.
Lovefoolosopher
a wormhole in the apple of existence
5th January 2005...total death toll: 150, 000...and counting.
Just over a week ago, on the day after Christmas, Death rampaged through the seabed of the Indian Ocean and tore up the beaches of several Asian countries with life-devouring tidal waves. The media has been broadcasting gruesome clips on the milieu of pillage that lingers - fishing ports and resorts reduced to warzones within a matter of minutes; lifeless bodies scattered amidst mounds of wreckage, like bloody meat on a colossal piece of butcher's cutting board; mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, sons, and daugthers cry tears of blood for their loved ones - many have been found dead, while thousands others missing, and probably have been landed the same fate.
I lost a good friend not too long ago. He was lost to the emotionless sea waves, trying to save a drowning colleague in Phuket, while on a vacation. Just a couple of days before he left for Phuket, we had dinner together at Kampung Chai Chee Restaurant, Tampines...the four of us, after a game of pool (one of the simplest joys in life we always found solace in...). Did he say anything out of the ordinary? Did he act like a person who knew he was going to die at a ripe age of 25? Nothing quite as theatrical. It was just another day.
For all the hardwork we put into our education, family, love life and social life, it is natural for anyone to expect a little token of gratitude from Life itself by granting us at least a warning of death to come. We would like to be the given the chance to plant our last kisses on our loved ones; we would like to cease all global wars and embrace our fellow human beings for one last time; we would like to reach out to God and beg for his pardon for all our sins and hope that heaven's door will be left ajar for some of us who will be running a little late.
But Life doesn't work that way. Life doesn't owe us a living. As Mark Twain had said, "It was here first." Perhaps, it is one of God's inscrutable ways of making us understand that true living is really about living each day as if it is going to be our last.
Why do we wait to tell someone that he or she means a lot to us? Why do we wait to express our gratitude to our parents and tell them that we love them? Why do we wait to ask God to brighten up the beacon that leads us on our journey through the labyrinth of Life? Why? Why do we wait as if we know for sure that we will live to see the next sunrise?
Because deep down, at the very pits of our soul and beyond the layers of prayer we have accumulated to conceal our darkest thoughts and sins, lies our skepticism about the end of life...well, at least, the end of our lives. Sure, many of us may adamantly insist that we believe in the end of days...only that it couldn't be anytime soon, could it?
While global superpowers had been preoccupied with countering terrorism in a self-glorifying fashion, Mother Nature had unleashed a wrath of its own in the form of the earthquakes and the subsequent tsunami in Southeast Asia. It is a stark reminder to us that we are, but merely a wormhole in the apple of existence.
Lovefoolosopher
Oklahoma
Just a few minutes ago, I was a blog virgin. Alas, my incessant jetlag ruptured my circadian rhythm, hence deflowering me into the realm of blog mania. For the past four days, I have turned nocturnal. I had gone for a 3-week study trip to Oklahoma, came back last Monday. Paying homage to the most fulfilling overseas trip I have ever been to, I shall cut the ribbon by sharing with you a piece of Native America, Oklahoma.
No, not really, no...Oklahoma is nowhere near Japan. I have to set the record straight once and for all because I've had navigationally-challenged friends coming up to me and asking me if I would be kind enough to smuggle home a couple of geishas.
Oklahoma is set in a rustic region of the United States. It is also known as Native America because in the 1800s, many Native American tribes were forced to relocate there. This explains why Oklahoma holds the largest Native American population in the country - more than half a million strong. In fact, talking about Native Americans, I had a lecturer come up to me, telling me that I could pass off as one. That was pretty cool, i think.
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, is majestically carpeted with vast plains of lush agriculture. I recall peering into the minuscule window of one of NorthWest's domestics as it was about to land. I could see square plots of greens and browns which were almost equally juxtaposed like a monolithic piece of checkers board.
On land, I was struck with awe at the amount of sky I was able to see. Skyscrapers were virtually non-existent. Well, they do exist, but only in the city area. Back in the suburbs where I stayed (Marriott Residence Inn, to be exact), the colossal billboards took charge. It was ridiculously funny when I think of it - in Oklahoma, you could be driving around for hours and feel like you are in the pages of a Stephen King classic, when suddenly this huge billboard sprouts up from nowhere, reminding you that civilization does exist.
In fact, as bumpkinly as Oklahoma City may seem, civilization does exist - civilization as warm as the first true sunset I have ever seen, witnessing from on board the plane, the sun kissing the Oklahoman horizon with the gentlest of kisses. I had always been jaded with the misconception that Americans are nothing more than a racist and an unwelcoming society. My trip to Oklahoma shamed me, for never have I seen such friendly, gentle and accommodating people. They shower you with tender smiles and warm greetings wherever you go. You bump into them and they will not think twice about apologizing. Back home in Singapore, you have people thinking they can pass through your body in a crowded MRT station, like in Patrick Swayze's Ghost. And when they realize that they actually could not, they stare at you with as much repugnance as if you had killed their beloved pet chihuahua.
My favourite Oklahoman was Christy, one of our drivers. She was a heavyset lady with crisp golden spirals accessorizing her wholesome, motherly face. She wasn't old, really...though I didn't ask her, I would guess she was in her late 30s. She spoke with a thick southern drawl which blends in perfectly with the whole rustic aura of her hometown.

Christy - the lady on the far left of the photo.

Christy had a 15 year-old son named Jimmy, who was almost a simpleton. Big ears, yellowish teeth, sunken eyes and generously scrawny, he was like a cross between that guy on
MAD Magazine and
Forest Gump. I said he was
almost a simpleton because although he didn't seem very smart, there was a time when he cunningly tried to fish a dollar out of me. Haha. Funny guy, that Jimmy.
Lovefoolosopher
Jimmy, Christy's son.

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